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Anita Anne Bylander         
 
          
     

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Peter John (Jr) Harings
  (Family Record)
Peter John Harings

Event Date Details
Birth 13 JAN 1923 Place: EAU CLAIRE, Wis
Bio Sketch  
Notes:
Biographical Sketch
Submitted By Alma Harings

Peter J. Harings Jr. was born on 17 June 1920 in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin to Peter J. Harings (1877-1972) b. Chippewa Falls & the former Louise Larson of Norway (1906-1978).

Pete Jr. joined the US Army Air Corps in 1941 and became a second lieutenant in 1942 when the 510th fighter squadron, 405th Fighter-bomber group originally formed. He served at Walterboro, SC as an intelligence officer, and served in the European Theatre when the 510th transferred to England early in 1944.


Our nations involvement in WWII was almost in full swing when Peter & Anita realized that he could be shipped out at any time. They were very much in love and had privately vowed to marry one another, even though a formal date for marriage had not been set yet. Faced with the hard realities concerning the current state of world affairs, Anita was suddenly fearful that her Bo might never return once shipped over seas. Given this, she asked Peter for his hand and He eagerly accepted.

ANITA & PETER were married (for the first time) on January 22, 1944 in a civil ceremony in Anita's hometown of Eau Claire Wisconsin. Anita’s father, (Henning Bylander) was a good friend of Judge Farr-- also of Eau Claire and arranged for the Judge to perform the ceremony at the local County court house.

At that time Anita was a Lutheran and Peter was a practicing Catholic. They both would have preferred a church wedding but was unable to come to an acceptable arrangement between themselves or their families. The young couple realized that time was of the essence so they opted for the civil ceremony.

Anita's parents held a reception for the newlyweds at their home in Eau Claire. The couple finally boarded a train later that same afternoon heading for Chicago. (See photo) Anita said that she enjoyed her first dinner as Mrs. Peter Harings that evening while being entertained by Cab Calloway. Hi De Ho!!

As previously mentioned, Pete was serving as an intelligence officer in the Army Air Corp & was stationed at Walterboro, South Carolina. He received his orders and was scheduled to ship out with his squadron during the second week of February. So after their quick civil ceremony, they spent the remainder of time together leisurely travelling south by train toward Walterboro.

Pete's father, a very strict and devout Catholic, was concerned that this new union had not been properly blessed. Before they left Eau Claire, Mr. Harings demanded that they have a priest bless their union before Peter Jr. leave for England. A Catholic wedding ceremony had been arranged and took take place on base as soon as they arrived in SC. (As told to me by my mother in law, Anita Bylander Harings, during the summer of 2003)


Their union ultimately produced 3 sons. (Peter John Harings, III was born on 14 Jun 1953) (Michael Harings 25 Oct 1958) & (John Harings 18 Oct 1963).

After his discharge in 1945, Peter joined the Air Force Reserves. In 1946 he went back on active duty, where as a captain he was an instructor for three years at the US Air Force Intelligence School. After a tour of duty in Tokyo, Japan, he completed active duty in 1950.

He went on to graduate from the U of Wisconsin in Madison with a Bachelor of Science degree in 1952 and a Master of Science degree in geography in 1953. He worked as a cartographer for Johnson Printing Co in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, and as a sales representative at Winnebago Corp in Menasha, Wisconsin prior to his retirement in 1987.

He was discharged from the Air Force Reserves in 1966 as a lieutenant colonel.

He was a member of Lions International and the Veterans of Foreign Wars.
After suffering a long illness, Peter died at his home in Prescott Valley, Arizona on Monday, 21 Feb 2000. His wife Anita and oldest son, Peter was by his side when he passed that day.

Memorial services were held at St Lukes Episcopal Church in Prescott, with the Rev Paul Crowell officiating. It was a beautiful ceremony with a brother from the 510th in attendance. (Note: Sunrise Funeral Home in Prescott AZ helped the family with all of the arrangements)

The Lieutenant Colonel’s ashes were ultimately laid to rest at the National Memorial Cemetery in Phoenix AZ. The military honoured his passing on that day with a seven-gun salute that was touching beyond words. His survivors included his wife, Anita; sons, Peter III of Winslow AZ; John of Tucson AZ & Michael of Ca.; Surviving Sisters: Helen Storm of Eau Claire, Wisconsin, Lucille Prueher of Kremmling Colorado & Catherine Nelson of Freedom, Ca.
Peter had 3 grandchildren at the time of his passing.





Alma Harings
aharings@cox.net

(Unrelated Historical Note of Interest by Alma: The base at Walterboro SC mentioned above ultimately became the airfield where the Tuskegee Airmen trained for combat during WWII and is now the location of their Memorial. For anyone not familiar with this extraordinary group, I highly recommend reading about their history and awesome legacy. )
Name Notes:
Anita preferred "Ann" as her middle name and dropped the "E">
Link:
Harings_Bylander Family Tree Project
Picture:
Anita Bylander-Harings (Newly wed 1945)
Picture:
The Newlyweds Jan 22 1944 Mr & Mrs Harings
Notes:
June 2004
My mother in law recently celebrated her 81st birthday. She has proven over and over again that unconditional love is not a myth. This lady has a heart of pure gold . She has had a full and rewarding life. As I write, I realize that she was able to achieve this through honoring and helping others. Anita was a registered nurse and was trained at the Mayo Clinic. She later became an administrator for a nursing facility in Wisconsin. She married her first love and had three sons. I married one of them and am grateful for her life, her love and friendship. She lost her husband Capt. Peter J Harings, Jr in 2000 and she still grieves deeply . I honestly believe that she is ready to be with him now. She has taught me a great deal about matters of the heart and I love her deeply.
Anita Anne Bylander-Harings: You are now 81 and more beautiful then ever.. I love you.

Alma E Dailey-Harings
01/2004

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